Polyvagal Principles For Wellbeing Practitioners.

A steady, practical way to support regulation, connection, and care - especially with neurodivergent and autistic clients.

Polyvagal theory explains how the nervous system reacts to stress and safety – and why human behaviour can switch so quickly. At Polyvagal Teen®, you’ll find practical, neurodivergent-friendly tools to spot patterns, work through tough moments, and build steadier days at home, in your practice and home life. Our tools help youth, families, organisations and neurodivergent individuals build healthier connections with their nervous system – supporting better relationships with self, others, and the wider world.

Begin with the free R.U.D Process®: a one-page guide to increasing self-awareness and diffusing tough moments.

Polyvagal theory explains how the nervous system reacts to stress and safety – and why human behaviour can switch so quickly.

At Polyvagal Teen®, you’ll find practical, neurodivergent-friendly tools to spot patterns, work through tough moments, and build steadier days at home, in your practice and home life. 

Our tools help youth, families, organisations and neurodivergent individuals build healthier connections with their nervous system – supporting better relationships with self, others, and the wider world.

Begin with the free R.U.D Process®: a one-page guide to increasing self-awareness and diffusing tough moments.

At A Glance ...

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Why R.U.D Works: Simple, pressure-free self-awareness

Many clients can’t answer “How do you feel?” on the spot - and that’s okay. For wellbeing practitioners, The R.U.D Process® starts where the body is, not where words are. It eases pressure, lowers shame, and creates space for small, doable change with neurodivergent and autistic clients, families, and schools.

Key benefits for polyvagal practitioners

  • Feels safer in sessions – no demand to name feelings on cue.

  • Kinder to the nervous system – noticing signals can soften stress.

  • Sensory-friendly options (breath and eye contact are optional).

  • Quick “little wins” that carry over into home and school.

  • Shared, blame-free language for co-regulation and communication.

  • Choice-led, consent-first – a good fit for neurodivergent profiles and alexithymia.

In short: the R.U.D Process® applies polyvagal principles to raise self-awareness without pressure - a solid foundation for meaningful change in practice. Download the R.U.D Process® worksheet for wellbeing practitioners (free)

Who the R.U.D Process® Helps

Tools for pupil emotional regulation (breath-optional)

  • Quick, pressure-free check-ins before lessons or sessions
  • Shared language for staff, pupils, and parents (buzzy · flat · steady)

  • Breath-optional options for sensory needs and exam stress

Useful in: pastoral meetings, form time, emotion based school avoidance, return-to-learn plans.

Polyvagal-informed practice, made simple

  • A gentle way to begin when feelings are hard or impossible to name

  • Fits any modality; keeps consent and choice front and centre

  • Helps understand how nervous system states drive behaviour. 

Useful in: intake sessions, brief interventions, family work. 

Sensory-friendly routines for OT sessions

  • Start with body signals when words are hard (alexithymia, shutdown)
  • Choice-led micro-practices (eyes, voice, movement; breath optional)
  • Gentle routines to embed between appointments

Useful in: sensory integration work, pacing plans, home programmes to raise awareness. 

Rapid regulation tool for primary care and first responders

  • 2-5 minute self-awareness sheet for high-pressure settings
  • Plain-English prompts to reduce shame and panic in the room

  • Easy handout for safety-first next steps

Useful in: primary care consults, wellbeing hubs, first-responder debriefs

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